Domestic abuse includes physical, emotional, sexual, psychological or economic abuse. Domestic abuse means that a person is controlled by a family member, partner or former partner. Domestic abuse can happen to anyone, regardless of gender or sexuality. It can be very difficult to recognise the signs of domestic abuse, but here are some of them.
- someone who is mocked
- someone who is afraid of their partner
- someone who suffers from depression, anxiety or are not as happy as they used to be
- someone who feels isolated or is forbidden from having contact with family/carers and friends
- someone who lives with a jealous or possessive person
- someone who is verbally abused
- someone who lives with a person who tells them they are worthless and that they could not cope without them
- someone who threatens violence or death
- someone who is criticised constantly
- someone who is controlled financially, or over what they wear, who they see, where they go and what they think
- someone who is dominated or controlled
- someone who is unsure of their own view
- someone who is locked out of the house during a row
- someone who is blamed for the abuse or the rows
- someone who is prevented from attending college or going to work
- someone who has changed the way they use social media, posting fewer things, removing pictures from their profile, deleting friends
- someone who constantly apologises for the behaviour of the other person.
Mae cam-drin domestig yn cynnwys cam-drin corfforol, emosiynol, rhywiol, seicolegol neu economaidd. Mae cam-drin domestig yn golygu bod person yn cael ei reoli gan aelod o’u teulu/gofalwyr, partner neu gynbartner. Gall cam-drin domestig ddigwydd i unrhyw un, waeth beth fo'u rhyw neu rywioldeb. Mae'n gallu bod yn anodd iawn adnabod arwyddion o gam-drin domestig, ond dyma rai ohonyn nhw.
- rhywun sy’n cael ei fychanu
- rhywun sydd ofn ei bartner
- rhywun sy’n dioddef o iselder, pryder neu ddim mor hapus ag yr oeddent yn arfer bod
- rhywun sy’n teimlo’n ynysig neu’n cael ei wahardd rhag cael cysylltiad â theulu/gofalwyr a ffrindiau
- rhywun sy’n byw â pherson sy’n genfigennus neu’n feddiannol
- rhywun sy’n cael ei gam-drin ar lafar
- rhywun sy’n byw â pherson sy’n dweud wrthynt ei bod yn ddiwerth ac na fyddant yn gallu ymdopi hebddyn nhw
- rhywun sy'n cael ei fygwth â thrais neu farwolaeth
- rhywun sy’n cael ei feirniadu trwy’r amser
- rhywun sy’n cael ei reoli’n ariannol, neu dros beth i’w wisgo, pwy i’w weld, ble i fynd a beth i’w feddwl
- rhywun sy’n cael ei ddominyddu neu reoli
- rhywun sy’n ansicr ynglŷn â’i farn ei hun
- rhywun sy’n cael ei gloi allan o’r tŷ yn ystod ffrae
- rhywun yn cael y bai am y gamdriniaeth neu'r ffraeo
- rhywun sy’n cael ei atal rhag mynd i goleg neu waith
- rhywun sydd wedi newid y ffordd maent yn defnyddio cyfryngau cymdeithasol, postio llai o bethau, tynnu lluniau oddi ar eu proffil, dileu ffrindiau
- rhywun sy’n ymddiheuro trwy'r adeg am ymddygiad person arall.