Thinking of the poem as a whole, how does Owen Sheers evoke the changing relationship between the two main people involved?

We watched it apart, and perhaps that was my mistake,
letting the half-darkness fall over you in the city,

while I traced its spreading hand across the fields,
following the rooks, flying in threes to roost.

But as the sun became quarter, then half moon,
it unlocked in me, and I saw us connected again,

by the day’s slowing to monochrome, by the mid-day midnight breeze
and by the moon’s shadow passing over and between us.

It was, however, just a trick of the light,
as I learnt, on returning and calling you that night;

listening to your voice down the line,
cooled by his presence, eclipsed and clipped.

And then, on going to sleep, the dream –
his shadow falling across your up-looking face –

his shadow, falling across your memory of me.

What is implied about the relationship before the eclipse?
What is implied about the relationship after the eclipse?
Do you think both partners shared the same feelings about the relationship?