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  • Introductory music
  • Words of welcome
  • Thoughts on life and death from a non-religious perspective
  • The tribute – an outline of the life and personality of the person who has died
  • Readings of poetry and prose
  • Reflection – a few moments for private thoughts about the person who has died, either in silence or accompanied by music
  • The committal – when the curtains are closed for the cremation or coffin lowered for a burial
  • Closing words – including thanks on your behalf
  • Final music
  • Non-religious music chosen by the deceased or their family, to welcome mourners.
  • Opening words, sometimes explaining what a Humanist funeral is all about.
  • An explanation of Humanist beliefs about the afterlife and why the deceased opted to have such a ceremony.
  • A personalised overview of the life of the deceased. This may be delivered by a family member or friend or it may be an ‘open mike’ format for anyone who wishes to say something.
  • Non-religious poetry or excerpts that meant something special to the deceased may be read.
  • No prayers here – Just an opportunity for the deceased’s loved ones to think their own thoughts about their loss and to remember the deceased person in their own way.
  • You won’t hear ‘ashes to ashes, dust to dust’ or any mention of life everlasting in another world here, as you would in a traditional Christian funeral.
  • A summing up and thanks to the mourners for attending.
  • Music that was special to the deceased is played to close proceedings.